Archive for October, 2012

All too often I hear guys talking about “creating attraction.”

They talk about DHV stories, negs, cocky-funny, cold reads, humor, and other things the believe will cause a women to become attracted to you. They go out, do all these things, then come back and post on forums wondering why women just aren’t attracted to them. If you’re one of those guys then I’m here to inspire a shift in thinking.

Instead of putting your focus on “creating attraction” you should instead put the focus on arousing the women. The absolute best way to arouse a woman is to have a sexual vibe. This comes from your look (be edgy), body language, and sexual escalation (important).

Lets take a closer look at how the two are different.

Meet Joe. Joe is heading out to his favorite bar tonight to hit on some women. Once Joe gets to the bar he approaches women and immediately starts trying to “build attraction.” He tells her a DHV story about some stripper ex-GFs that never existed. He makes a few cold reads, hes very cocky-funny. He gets a lot of positive reactions from the chick but at the end of the night when he goes to pull her home she says no and goes to her friends. He was entertaining but he wasn’t attractive. GoodLookingLoser calls this “Mr Funny Man Game” and I tend to agree with that assessment.

Meet Bob. Like Joe, Bob is also heading out to the bar. Bob is dressed edgy and looking good. Although hes not a classically good looking guy, hes dressed well and in a manner that exudes a sexual vibe. Bob gets to the bar and spots a sexy blond which he approaches. Bob comes in with sexual eye contact and talks slow. He uses pauses and builds tension with his speech. Bob is also very close to her, less than an arms length away. He shoots the shit with her, just self amusing and not talking about anything very important. Bob isn’t looking for reactions. Instead hes amping up the sexual tension and arousing her. He isn’t worried about proving hes some abstract “high value guy.” He doesn’t care about that and knows she doesn’t either. His concern is to have a good time and to make her horny by arousing her via sexual tension. He touches her, flirts with her, and moves her around the bar a lot. When the night comes to an end her looks at her, “lets get outta here” and off they go.

While both examples are a bit silly they are accurate. If you have been going out and focusing on “building attraction” without success then shift your focus away from that and to building tension and arousing women.

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35 Tips for Better Game

Posted: October 30, 2012 in Uncategorized

–¬†If you see a cutie in yoga pants, APPROACH IMMEDIATELY. These chicks are wearing yoga pants to show off their ass. Also, them seem to be easier lays. Obviously an exception is if their going or coming from yoga class.

– When you bring a chick home, have her remove her shoes first thing. Its a psychological trick that makes her more comfortable right away.

– Raves are often the easiest place to pull SNLs from.

– SNLs are easiest to pull around the time the bars/clubs close. Escalate hard and fast.

– Any girl you hit on has probably slept with a guy whos more ugly than you. If not you really need to improve your looks.

– Shoe lifts are magical for short guys

– Biker jackets help destroy negative asian/indian sterotypes

– Don’t waste time on uninterested women. While it could be possible to get her to like you after to expend a bunch of time and energy into her its still not likely. Approach someone else!

– Strangers dont care about you. Approach and don’t worry about looking silly.

– Move girls around… A LOT. Movement furthers both investment and compliance.

– Leave “smooth” pick ups to James Bond. Here in the real world you will say and do dumb stuff. How you react to your fuck ups shows the girl how confident you are.

– Spend time on meaningful stuff.

– Keep dates simple. You want them to be cheap, logistically simple, and able to have a conversation and have fun.

– Dont relay on the date itself to be fun. Rely on YOU to make the date fun.

– Most guys HIGHLY over use “cocky and funny.” Don’t be the jackass who thinks hes cool but looks like a retard. Less is often more.

– Touch women like a man. Touching her elbow and playing thumb war isn’t going to turn her on.

– Going out alone will do wonders for your development.

– When it comes to texting, less is more. Keep it simple.

– Make a list of all the things you would do if you were going to die in 3 months. Start doing them.

– Don;t talk about her job or other boring things. Talk about her passions.

– Put the pressure on her to be interesting.

– No one cares about who lies more.

– They also dont care if you only have a minute because your friends are waiting.

– Sexual eye contact will make most women wet.

– Statements are better than questions. For example, “I bet your a law student” is better than “what do you do?”

– Your ex is your ex for a reason. Leave it that way.

– Getting hot girls has more to do with you than the girls.

– Its better to move to fast than to move to slow. Wait to long to make a move and she will loose interest.

– Women crave validation. Know when to give it and when to withhold it.

– “If shes wearing red shes ready to be taken to bed.” There is much truth to that statement.

– You dont ever have to respond to anything a woman says. You can ignore it and change the subject.

– Women flake, it happens. Many times it has nothing to do with you.

– Make your first date on Mon – Thur.

– Seduction is not a battle between you and her. Its a partnership. Your both working towards the same goal. Remember that.

– Have fun. If your not having fun do something else.

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Few Tips on Daygame

Posted: October 2, 2012 in Uncategorized

Below are a few tips that will hopefully help you achieve more success with daygame.

1) The weather will affect how women respond to you. While this isn’t a game changer it is something to keep in mind. The better the weather, the warmer girls will respond to you.

2) My friends and I have a social get together a few times a month. Usually we all go out to eat and then hit up a bar afterwords. A day before we go out we send a mass text to all the flaky numbers we gathered sense the last outing and let them know about it. Make sure to tell them to bring a friend. You will be surprised how many girls will respond and show up. Bingo, now your going out with a bunch of your guy friends and also now a bunch of hot chicks. Not only will this give you a lot of social proof but some of the women who weren’t available before may now be. Do this often and your group will keep growing and growing. This is just a cool way of trying to turn those otherwise useless numbers into something useful.

3) SCREEN! A big reason my meet to lay ratio is good is because I screen hard. There are a lot of hot chicks in my city and I dont have time to approach them all. The solution is to only (with exceptions) approach women who give your sings of interest, or seem to be horny.

A big thing I do is lock eyes with all attractive women walking in my direction and I communicate to her with my eyes, “I want to fuck you.” I gauge her reaction and if good I approach. If not, no big deal… lots of other hotties.

I also look for over-exertions and preens.. Illuminatus has written a great article on over-exertions, check it out. A preen is very subtle and can be easy to miss. It takes practice to catch them. An example of a preen would be a woman walking into your line of sight, stopping for just a split second and adjusting an item of clothing or her hair. If you catch an attractive women giving you a preen, approach her.

I also look for women who appear to be horny. This one is harder to explain but when you start going out a lot you will start to develop a 6th sense. Usually though horny women walk more seductively, play with their hair a lot, wear a bit less clothing, wear a lot of red.

4) Don’t talk about boring conversations. Most guys, when they approach, talk about what she does for fun, where she works, what school she goes too, ect. Instead, talk about emotionally compelling topics such as her passions, childhood dreams, and other things of that sort.

If I had to break down my daygame method it would be this:

– Screen for good women to approach
– Approach (usually direct)
– Form a connection
– Qualify her
– Get her number

While doing all that keep a sexual vibe as well. Use sexual eye contact and a bit of touch.