Archive for June, 2012

I’ll come right out and say it, I suck at dancing.

However, while I may suck at it, I still LOVE to dance and it only made sense to me to combine two of my loves, dancing and seduction. Back a few years ago when I first decided to to jump into dance floor game I went online, bought a few books catered towards dance floor seduction, asked questions about it on the forums, and watched the good dancers in the clubs.

The conclusion I came to is that to get good at seducing women on the dance floor I would have to get better at dancing. Wasn’t happening.

Not only did I have to much other stuff I was working on at the time but I also just didn’t care to become a good dancer. It wasn’t long after that a buddy and I were out in a loud dance club having fun and hitting on the women in the quieter areas. After a few drinks and a dare we both went out to the center of the dance floor and displayed what was probably the worst, silliest, and most amusing dance moves in the history of club dance.

Think of every single silly/dumb dance you can think of. Chances are we did it that night. It was really fun and we got so into it we did it for over thirty minutes. Many people even stopped and watched us. Some though it was funny, some didn’t care, some wanted us to get hit by a bus.

After a while my buddy and I grew tired and needed a break so we stopped dancing and headed to the bar. Once at the bar I noticed a cute brunette in a killer black dress eyeballing me down. I noticed her minutes before as well when I was on the dance floor.

I approached her, started a conversation, turned up the heat sexually, and eventually lead her out of the club and back to her house.

A couple nights later he and I went out again, got onto the dance floor, unloaded the silliest dance moves ever and then went to the bar when we got tired. While I was dancing I made sure to keep a mental note of each cute girl that was watching and checking me out while I danced.

When we were finished dancing I looked around for any of the cute girls I seen checking me out. I ended up taking home the second one I approached.

Over the next few weeks I went out with my buddy and even by myself some nights and repeated the experiment. I would go onto the dance floor, have a massive amount of fun by being silly, taking note of all the girls checking me out, then approaching them when I was done.

The result was some of the fastest and easiest lays I had ever had to that point.

In my book, The Night Game Blueprint, I talk about screening for interested women. Interested women include women who are giving you “approach invitations” (such as eye contact, proximity, open body language, overexertions) and horny women.

Many guys complain to me that they “aren’t good looking enough to get approach invites” and they they cant spot horny women. Being silly on the dance floor solves all that.

While your out there being silly and having fun its quite easy to take a quick mental note at which girls are smiling and enjoying watching you. Once your done dancing all you have to do is approach these women,

I promise you that if you go to a club and start silly dancing and then approach the women who looked into you, your meet to lay ratio will sky rocket up. Of course, you still need “game” such as escalation skills but opening the women who appeared into you will make everything easier.

Give it a try.

P.S. If you like what you have just read then you owe it to yourself to download a free copy of my 50 page ebook, The Night Game Blueprint. It covers all the fundamentals you need to know to seduce women in bars, clubs, concerts, lounges, and other night game environments. You can pick up up your free copy by clicking here.

P.P.S. If you are serious about getting good with women and want to take your game to the next level then check out my Monthy Mentorship Program. Its 30 days of personal coaching that includes daily missions, your personal journal which I will give feedback on, multiple hours of personal phone coaching, my private number so you can contact me during the day, and free copies of all my future products for life. Check it out here.

I recently wrote a 50 page ebook, The Night Game Blueprint that is a no fluff, straight to the point, guide on how to succeed at night game. The book includes all the fundamentals you need to know to meet, seduce, and have sex with women.

The Table of Contents:

Part 1 – The Realities Of Seduction

The Truth About Looks
A Wake Up Call
Its a Numbers Game
Getting Laid is Easy

Part 2 – Pre-Seduction

Screening and Being Efficient

Part 3 – The Seduction Begins

Opening
Momentum
The “Go Now” Rule
How to Open
Permission to Fail
Logistics
Conversation
Having Fun and Self Amusing
ESP Model of Escalation
Eye Contact
Sexualization
Physical Touch
Investment and Compliance
The Importance of Movement
Dominant Polarity
Damage Control
The 15 Minute Rule

Part 4 – Endgame

Types of Closing

Bonus

Lay Reports

You can download the book by clicking here.

Getting Good FAST

Posted: June 10, 2012 in Uncategorized

I see a lot of guys who discover this stuff, dive pretty deep into it, and after a few years have nothing much to show for it. Its a sad, but very real, trend in the community to see guys never get any success with all of this.

Outlined below is a simple and effective method to get really good at this at a pretty fast rate.

Pick ONE method/guru and learn from them and ONLY them for the first 8 months. There is a shit ton of conflicting advice here in our little community. What most guys do when they discover this stuff is to dive in deep and read everything by everyone. Not only does this give them information overload but it also ends up confusing the hell out of them due to the amount on conflicting advice. For that reason its important that you adhere to this rule and pick one person, learn and apply only his stuff for the first eight months.

Go out THREE times as much as you study theory. This one is important! Most guys discover this and read, read, read, read, read, and read some more. To ensure that you actually making use of what you study, make sure you go out and apply it three times as much as you studied it. For example, lets say you watch a three hour dvd on night game. before your allowed to study anything else you will have to spend nine hours out infield.

Make friends with other people who goes out. This one is important because it will keep you both motivated and accountable.

Always be pushing your comfort zones. I see a lot of guys who get good at getting phone numbers get lazy. Instead of pushing their comfort zones and learning how to seduce faster they just stay with getting numbers. Always be pushing your comfort zones and you will see improvement.

Set time aside to get good. Take any legit “gurus” and compare them and you will find a big trend among them all. When they first decided to master this they all set a large chunk of time aside, usually 8 months to multiple years and dedicated all that time to getting good at PU. Tyler Durden is a great example. He went out almost every single night for like 3 years. Mystery went out 4 – 5 nights a week for 6 years. Rob Judge went out 5 nights a week for a year. Ect… Take any unnecessary hobbies and temporarily put them aside and dedicate the next eight months to getting really good at this. The beauty of the modern community is that so much stuff has been figured out that you can accomplish in months what it used to take guys years to do.

Fundamentals, fundamentals, fundamentals. 80% of your success will come from the fundamentals. Spend the majority of your time learning the fundamentals and success will follow. Don’t be trying to learn how to pull SNLs when you cant even open without stuttering.

Set goals. Set specific goals and specific dates you want to accomplish the goals by. For example, lets say your just starting, have major approach anxiety, and want to approach more. A good goal to set would be to approach five girls a day for the next week. After that week reevaluate and make another goal. Lets say your more advanced and want to get better at fast escalations. A good goal would be to go out the next two weeks and only focus on escalating as fast as possible.

Okay, now I have a little homework for you. Set a timer for three minutes and then write down every single excuse for not being able to get good at this you can think of. Keep writing until the timer goes off and try to be specific.

Then take as long as you need and write down a reason beside each excuse for either why that excuse is bull shit or how you can overcome it.

For example, lets say one of your excuses is that you don’t make enough money to go out constantly. A good way to get around that is to get a better job that makes you more money, examine all your expenses and cut the unnecessary ones, or to simply do day game. Walking around the city approaching women is free.

Alright guys, go out, put this stuff into action, and go get good. See ya around.

P.S. If you like what you have just read then you owe it to yourself to download a free copy of my 50 page ebook, The Night Game Blueprint. It covers all the fundamentals you need to know to seduce women in bars, clubs, concerts, lounges, and other night game environments. You can pick up up your free copy by clicking here.

P.P.S. If you are serious about getting good with women and want to take your game to the next level then check out my Monthy Mentorship Program. Its 30 days of personal coaching that includes daily missions, your personal journal which I will give feedback on, multiple hours of personal phone coaching, my private number so you can contact me during the day, and free copies of all my future products for life. Check it out here.