Archive for April, 2012

The following is a list of the best things in life I have gave up. After the list I will encourage you to make your own list of things you want to give up and start on it. Then I will relate this to having sex with women.

1) Television. I gave up watching TV about 4 years ago and haven’t looked back sense. Its not possible for me to describe in words how much social conditioning your exposed to through TV. Give it up for just a few months and you will notice that you can now form your own opinions and think clearer. Then you can decided how much you want to reintroduce it into your life (if at all).

2) Junk food and unhealthy food in general. I’ve probably added several years onto my life and every year of my life is now better. More energy, stamina, and sex appeal are just a few of the benefits of giving up shitty “food.”

3) Soft drinks. This is is pretty much the same as above.

4) Video Games. Ok, I have to confess… I do play about 30 minutes a week. Anyways, I used to spend a lot of time playing video games and giving it up has given me so much more free time to peruse other more important and profound things.

5) God. I became an atheist in my freshman year of high school and have never looked back. If you want to believe in God, fine. However, free yourself from any organized religion that surrounds the Christian/Muslim God. Like TV, Religion (with the exception of Buddhism) throws so much bad social conditioning at you. Free yourself. The only good religion, IMO, is Buddhism.

6) Facebook. I still have one because if your under 30 it will be how you get invited to a lot of parties and events. However, I check it once a day for like 5 minutes top to see any invites or to send out invites of my own. It amazes me how many people waste their life way reading other peoples drama and playing farmville.

7) Porn and masturbation. I have recently given up all porn. Already I have turned into an even more horny bastard. I am now able to put that sexual energy to good use though.

Make your own list of things you want to give up. Focus on unproductive things that take up a lot of your time and also on things that pushes a lot of social conditioning on you.

Okay, thats all good and shit but how does it all relate to women?

What do you think will happen when you suddenly have the power of clarity of thought due to the lack of incoming social conditioning and a ton of free time?

You will find ways to improve your life, thats what! You will go out and meet more women, work on your lifestyle, have time to make all that money you want, ect… In short, you will now start working towards actually becoming an attractive man. Ladies love attractive men.

Rejection. That one word is the source of so much fear in guys and its one of the top reasons men don’t improve with women. What these men fail to realize is that rejection is a good thing.

Rejection exist for a reason. Rejection keeps people who are not compatible with one another away from each other. This is a very good thing! But why?

In order to get laid you must find woman who are open to getting laid and who you share a connection with. Rejection filters out all the women who fails to meet those two criteria. In essence rejection is a screening process. It filters out all the women who you are not going to have sex with and allows you to find the ones you can have sex with. Its a massive time saver.

If you never get rejected your going to waste a ton of time on women who have no intentions of ever dropping their pants for you.

I rather approach a woman and get instantly rejected than waste 20 minutes on her to only find that shes not a good prospect. By getting instantly rejected I have just saved 20 minutes than I can now use to find woman who are open to getting laid and who like me.

Go out, meet women and if you get rejected a lot, big deal. The more rejections you get the closer you get to getting laid. Everytime you get rejected your one chick closer to finding one that wants your dick.

Eventually (if you stick with it) you will get better and get rejected less and less but it will always exist. Embrace it.

Myth: Hot women are harder to get than ugly and average women.

Truth: The difficulty of any certain woman is largely out of your control and largely not about her looks.

Consider the following…

What if you see a chick and you think shes a 10 and I think shes a 7… is she going to be harder for you than me?

What if that “10” has low self esteem and feels ugly? How about that ugly chick on the dance floor that feels like shes the hottest chick in the club? Which will be harder?

What if another “10” that walks in and is horny and looking for some dick? Will she be harder than the “6” who’s feeling extremely bitchy and is blowing out every guy who even looks at her?

How about the fatty that is rude because shes afraid to open up to people because shes used to getting hurt compared to the super hottie who will happily fall in love with you if you treat her normal and not suck up to her just because shes hot… which is harder?

The difficulty of any certain woman is largely out of your control and largely not about her looks.

So why is it that many guys can get average looking chicks but not the hotties? It has nothing to do with the woman and everything to do with them.

Sometimes its an entitlement issue. They simply dont feel like they deserve a hottie and that belief manifest itself in the interactions with hot women.

The biggest reason I have noticed, however, is because guys feel like they have to do something different. This feeling causes them to act weird, try way to hard, and over game women they perceive to be hot.

Stop trying to impress these women and stop kissing their ass. The women will be so awe stuck at a guy who can really “be himself” they she will be intrigued by you.

There is nothing different that you have to do with hotties than you do with average women. You still approach and be genuine, you still amplify the sexual tension, you still have fun and spark her emotions, and you still go for the close. Everything is the same. If your having trouble with hot women then stop trying to “game” them different and stop putting them on a pedastol.