Archive for October, 2011

Boyfriend Season

Posted: October 11, 2011 in Uncategorized

*shivers*

Its that time of year where I, and many other people live…its Boyfriend season, also known as winter!

Winters get cold where I live (Northern United States) and every year right around this time (Fall, starting to get cold) I notice a trend, EVERYONE starts to hook up. My theory is because when it gets cold, people don’t feel like going out as often. They just wanna stay in, snuggle up with another warm body, sip of hot coco and watch the current hit romantic comedy. Nothing wrong with that and i’m even a bit of the same way.

October is fall around here and just starting to get cold. This is when most people start hooking up. By the end of November almost everyone that can get someone, and that’s wants someone, has someone.

This is why this time of year is the hardest time of the year to hook up. Women are still in that “honeymoon phase” here being with her guy is still new and exciting. She hasn’t yet had time to discover how much of a chode he is yet. Also, I like most people don’t really like the cold and it usually takes me a while for my body to get used to it enough where I wanna go back out multiple nights a week.

Every year I pretty much do the same thing. If what I have described above then the following is something you way wish to consider doing yourself.

I usually let any fuck buddies I have go and stay with my primary at the time until about February. Up until then I’ll still go out but not often, usually only twice a week compared to 5+ night a week during the summer. When February hits I’m usually pretty well adjusted to the cold and I start going out a little more. By now I may have a fuck buddy again if I feel like it. From here I get more and more active until summer hits.

So, what can you do if the whole winter scenario describes your suitation but you don’t have a GF or any fuck buddies?

The problems we have is that your not going to feel like going out as much, that the women who are single wont even feel like going out as much, and the women who arnt single will be harder to get plus they also wont be going out as much.

So how will you meet women now?

The solution is to turn to your social circle. But forgetting about that for a second we also have online game. Dating sites and social networking sites such as Facebook and MyYearBook are now a great solution to finding women.

Have fun, bundle up, and enjoy the winter 😉

The Real Solution to LMR

Posted: October 8, 2011 in Uncategorized

Been some talk of LMR (Last minute resistance) lately and I figure I would share my .02 cents on the matter.

I hardly ever get LMR anymore… its pretty damn rare. If your constantly getting LMR from a chick then your not expressing your sexuality.

LMR is not really determined by your “end game” skills. LMR is determined by how well your expressed your sexuality and how well you was aligned with your intent.

Think of it this way: A guy approaches a woman indirectly and interacts with her as a friend would to another friend. He maks some excuse to get her back to his place and when he tries to get his dick wet she puts up resistance.

On the other hand, a guy approaches her directly, interacts to her like a man to a woman, is comfortable expressing his sexuality and is very much align with his intent, she is going to know what he is all about. Now when she agress to go back to his place, she is going to know whats up and is agreeing with it even if its only subconscious.

So, the big solution to not getting LMR? Being sexual and sexually escalating! If your not sure how to do that, read the link in my sig called “Guide to Sexual Escalation”

So what do you do if you have her back to her place and she is giving you LMR?

What you DON’T want to do is a freeze out. If your not sure what that is, a freeze out is where you bascially ignore her and take away all of the validation she was getting before. While this can work its often hit or miss and often times the chick will think your a chode. Also, sometimes she will have sex with you just to not hurt your feelings when you sue a freeze out. Do you want a pitty fuck? Didn’t think so…

So what should you do?

Keep a playful attitude and start sexually teasing her.

Smell her neck
Kiss her all over
Pull her hair
Bite her neck
Whisper dirty stuff in her ear (This one works really well)

Do them all. The more turned on she gets, the more she will want to fuck you.

If shes letting you tease the shit outta her but still not letting you get it in you can use a trick I call “Pitching a Tent.”

This is a simple trick that involves you pulling the blankets over top of both of you and doing s small role play.

“Wow, this is a pretty awesome tent. Looks like we picked such a beautiful place to go camping, way out here.. in the middle of no where!”

Then go back to teasing her under the covers. As silly as it sounds, it also works super well. The sillyness of it all, combined with her only being able to focus on you with the covers blocking out all outside stimuli, takes her out of logic mode and into her emotional mode where she will feel free to do what she wants… which is you!

Once you start having sex you can pull the blankets down of course.

If that still doesn’t work just turn and say to her, “It seems like your not comfortable going all the way. Its fine and I understand. We’ll just continue to have fun fooling around. Just say stop if you get uncomfortable.” Make sure to say it with a smile and don’t be mad. If your mad she will sense it and not be comfortable. But, if your genuine when you say this, she will start to feel extremely relaxed and comfortable.

Go back to teasing her and if shes still enjoying herself, start taking off the rest of her clothes and escalate to sex.

Don’t ask if she wants to because she will know to just say stop if shes not comfortable.

Being open with her and letting her know she can be relaxed and comfortable around you will make her more open to having sex.

After all that, more than likely you will be having yourself some sex with a pretty lady but if not be understanding. After all, its just sex and besides, maybe the next time she will give it up. Wink

Have fun guys!