Archive for August, 2011

I know a ton of people here who have been practicing pick up for a while now (4 months +) and still not getting laid. If you have been approaching not just just choding out and being a pussy, by 4 months you should have gotten laid from cold approach by now. If you haven’t consider these following reasons and take action:

1) Not leading

If your not dictating where the interaction goes then your leaving it up to her. If you have been around the community for even a month you should know why leading is good and not leading is bad. Led her mentally (emotions) and lead her physically.

2) Not being physcial/sexual

I’ve wrote quite a bit on this topic in the past so check out my other post, specially my post “ESP Model of Escalation.” Basically you have to be physical and sexual with her. If not then your just another chode who is playing it “nice” with her and will come off as boring. Being physical and sexual turns her on and will make her want to fuck you.

3) Not going for the close

Man up and go for the close and go for it often. Im not talking a number close either…I’m talking about pulling her to a sex location. A lot of times guys will try to pull once, face resistance, and give up. DON’T DO THAT! At first you don’t succeed, try, try again!

4) Playing to win and taking bold moves

This again ties into not being a pussy chode. Play to win! Most guys play to not loose (playing safe) and by doing so they loose. Make the bold moves you need to make and play to win.

Direct Game EXPOSED

Posted: August 4, 2011 in Uncategorized

The term “direct game” gets thrown around a lot here. But what exactly does it mean to “just go direct?”

Direct game is a very misunderstood concept here in our little community and its time for that to change. Its unfortunate but people seem to treat direct game (and “going direct”) to be some sort of tactic to use on women. This is horribly false.

Another good example of how direct game is misunderstood is how people have canned direct openers. Once upon a time I used to guilty of this as well. I used to approach women and be authentic and tell them exactly what I felt about them in that moment. It was authentic and real, never planned. 100% authentic feelings. Then, in order to streamline the opening process I came up with a canned “direct” opener. When I did that, opening wasn’t quite the success it used to be, that is, until I reverted back to being pure authentic. And thats what direct game truly is…

Being Authentic and 100% genuine in your intent, thoughts, and actions.

You can be doing direct game even if you open with a situational opener. Opening asking a chick for an opinion can be direct too so long as you actually want her opinion about something. (example: I was watching a debate on CNN at a coffee shop and I looked over and asked a chick which side of the argument she liked best)

Direct game isn’t some tactic you use, direct game is about expressing your true desire and being shameless about it. Its about being authentic and real with both yourself and the woman.

I’ll say it again…

Being direct is about expressing your true desires and being shameless about it.

Thats direct game. Its not a line, its not a tactic. Hope that helps to clear up some of the confusion and misconceptions.