Advanced Guide to Night Game

This guide will lay out how to get extremely quick pulls from night game venues. The best type of venue to run this style of game in is medium to large size dance clubs. The following is a quick primer on how its done:

1) Dress Edgy. Learn how to dress (wearing clothes that fit, matches up with your skin tone, and makes you look more fit) and then add a sexual touch to it. This can be as easy as unbuttoning your shirt one more button than most guys do, wearing your clothes a bit tighter than most, showing off the good parts of your body, ect. You can find a more complete guide to dressing well here.

2) Have a sexual vibe. This is related to #1 and I have written about it before. Basically, be a man that is able to amp up sexual tension. Talk slow and sensually and add pauses to build intrigue, be flirty, exude strong sexual eye contact, and be in a sexual state.

3) Figure out the club’s rhythm. For example, if a club opens at 10 and closes at 3, most women wont be ready to pull until 12 at the earliest and most likely closer to 1. Women spend a lot of time getting ready before they go out. When they finally hit the club they wanna show themselves off, drink, hang with their friends, and blow off some steam. You have to let them accomplish all of this before they are ready to be pulled.

4) Have fun for the first few hours. Lets say the club’s hours are 10 – 3 and you get there at 11. Because of the cubs rhythm you know you should wait until 1 to try and pull. So what do you do? The same thing the women are doing. HAVE FUN. Drink beers, dance, have fun with your buddies, build momentum, and let off some steam.

5) keep an eye out for DTF girls. In “The Night Game Blueprint” I detailed what I call “DTF girls.” These are chicks that are dick hunting and are looking for a guy to go home with. Some DTF signals to look for:

– Girls showing a lot of skin/dressed in a very sexual way
– Eyes constantly wondering around (looking for hot guys)
– Leaves her friends a lot to go to the bathroom (making it easy for guys to approach them)
– Hold eye contact with you
– Gives your proximity
– Girls exhibiting overexertions (girls trying to get noticed so they will get approached)
– Girls who take up a lot of space on the dance floor
– Girls who are there alone

6) Approach. When the rhythm gets right (in our case 1 AM) its time to approach. By now you should have found many girls who meet the above criteria. Approach the nearest hottest one.

7) Test her compliance. As soon as you approach you need to test how compliant and open she is.

– Hold up your hand for a high five (if its loud dont worry about speaking yet)
– Spin her around
– Pull her in close by her hips
– Take a step back and then pull her in again
– Move her hair back
– Whisper something sexy in her ear

That logical progression is to be done right after you approach and should be done very quickly. Doing the above things test her compliance and if any any point she doesn’t let you do one of the things, walk away and approach another girl. Remember, the goal of this method is to get no bullshit fast pulls. Your doing this in big clubs so their are many girls!

8) Isolate her. If she passes all the above compliance test its time to isolate her. This in itself is also a compliance test. If she wont isolate with you then walk away. “Lets move over there.” Thats all you have to say. I like to move girls over to a couch or chair.

9) Escalate very fast. Using my ESP Model of Escalation as a guide escalate on her very fast. If you move her to a couch or chair, have her sit on your lap. Use strong sexual eye contact and some “shock and awe.”

If you correctly screen well and approached a chick who is looking for dick, passed your compliance test, isolated with you, and accepts your escalations you will be able to pull her very soon. Don’t waste time. Escalate for 10 minutes at max and then do “the trigger.”

10) Do The Trigger. The trigger technique is where you do one last major escalation move to trigger a major spike in sexual tension and making her very horny. Also, it is again a bit of a compliance test. In the above scenario where your sitting on a couch a good trigger technique would be picking her up without waring, walking over to the nearest wall, pin her against it, and go in for the kiss but stop right before your lips touch, give her very strong sexual eye contact for a few seconds, lick her lips then sensually whisper in her ear, “lets get out of here.”

Be creative, do some experimentation, and you will find some of your own good triggers. All it has to do is immediately and effectively spike her horyniess up.

11) Pull immediately. As soon as you perform the trigger technique, pull her out of the club and back to the sex location. This can be your place, her place, even a bathroom.

Putting it all together

Here is what it look likes:

You go to the local club with your buddies. You drink, dance, be social and have a killer time. Around 1 you approach a chick on the edge of the dance floor who was dressed super sexy, and glancing around a lot. You walk up, hold out your hand for a high five. When she gives you a high five you kept a hold of her hand and spun her around. You pulled her in, took a small step back and pulled her in more. You gave her some sexual eye contact and a slight smile before moving her hair back and whispering in her ear about how sexy she dances.

You take her by the hand and tell her to follow you. Once over on the couch you sit her on your lap. You ask her name and give yours back. All the while your giving her sexual eye contact and feeling up her legs. You tell her that shes driving you fucking crazy and how its her fault (shock and awe). Out of nowhere, in the middle of one of her sentences you hoist her up and carry her fireman style a few steps, set her down and push her back into the wall (keep one of your hands behind her head so that her head doesn’t hit the wall hard) then you tease the fuck outta her with an “almost-kiss.” You take her hand and pull her out of the club, getting a sly, knowing smile from your buddies as you leave with her.

Total elapsed time: 31 minutes.

Many times it wont always go that smooth and often you may have to approach a few women but when your game gets tight the above method is great for getting super quick lays.

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Complete Daygame Guide

Posted: December 30, 2012 in Uncategorized

The following is not only what I personally use but what I have also taught to all of my daygame clients in 2012 and is what I will continue to teach them.

There are many great books and guides on the internet for night game but not so many for daygame. the purpose of this is to change all of that and finally give guys a good “go-to” guide for how to meet and seduce women during the daytime. This guide covers the bare basics of daygame and is meant to be a primer for my upcoming book about daygame (which like my other book will be free).

Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoy. Ask any questions you have at the end.

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Section 1 – Get your Looks Handled
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Its now 2013 and the community (most of it anyways) is starting to realize that looks do matter and are important. They may not be the most important thing but you should strive to max out your looks and make yourself as physically attractive as possible. This guide isn’t about looks so I’m going to keep this section basic and short. In order to max out your looks you should:

– Fix obvious flaws such as crooked teeth and acne

– Hit the gym. Most people can stand to loose weight or bulk and add muscle

– Dress better. Its amazing how many guys dress like shit and don’t know it.

– Make your face look symmetrical. This can be done by changing up your hair and facial hair. Experiment

– Fix your posture.

This section is very short and its only a list of things to get you started. For more information on improving your looks I suggest the book  Seduce with style. Most guys can become at least average looking with some effort so don’t be lazy!

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Section 2 – Screening
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I’m a busy guy and when I’m out during the day I don’t have time to approach every attractive woman I see. Because of that I have developed a system of screening for women during the day. My screening system is to find and point out the girls who seem like could be the fastest and easiest lays.

In a nutshell here is what I “screen” for as I’m out and about during the day. In addition to be attractive I will approach girls who:

– Are dressed in a way that shows off plenty of skin. These girls are often looking for a guy.

– Gives me eye contact or holds eye contact with me

– Exhibits “overexertions.” An overexertion is anything a chick does to get you to notice her. This could be talking louder, bumping into you seemingly on accident, fixing her clothes when you look at her, ect.

If you see an attractive chick who fits any of the above categories you should approach as you will have a much better chance at closing her.

What I like to do is force warm approaches. As I’m walking down the street I will lock eyes with every cute woman I meet. As I lock eyes I fully communicate “I want to fuck you.” I”m not saying this verbally by rather non verbally. If you look into her eyes and think about fucking her, your eye contact, body language, and vibe will all communicate that to her.

Just keep eye contact with her and again, if she holds it longer than she normally would shes probably interested in you. As she gets closer to you stop her and open direct.

If she doesn’t seem likes shes interested you can just let her walk on by or you can stop her and open anyways.

So, how do you open a chick?

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Section 3 – Opening
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Before you learn how to open you must first learn the three types of openers:

– Indirect. These openers include things like asking a chick for her opinion or asking for the time. These are called indirect openers because you are hiding your intentions with these openers.

– Situational. These are openers that vary with each situation. For instance, lets say shes reading a magazine when you approach her. If you open with a situational opener you would comment on her magazine. If shes in a long checkout line in front of you then your opener would be something about the long line.

– Direct. Direct openers are the exact opposite of indirect openers in the sense that with direct your walking up and laying your cards on the table. With direct you tell her flat out that you find her attractive.

I cant exactly sit here at tell you which opener to use. However, I can tell you that I would strongly suggest that you never use indirect openers as you will look lame. The one exception is if you have really bad approach anxiety. I would suggest that once you have your approach anxiety handled you experiment with both situational and direct and find what works best for you. I use both quite frequently.

I’m a big fan of going direct and being a man about your desires and most of the time that’s what I do. However, approaching that way isn’t always the best way. When I approach a woman I will usually throw out a Tester Statement such as “excuse me.” Once I throw that out I see how she reacts to me. It only takes a split second to size her up. Did she respond (both verbally and non verbally) warmly to me, cold, standoffish, confused, scared, ect…

If she responds warmly I will go direct but I don’t go over the top with silly things such as “Your hot lets fuck.” My direct openers are more low key such as “Excuse me, I seen you from over there and I just had to come meet you.” Another example is, “Excuse me, your completely adorable/cute and I had to come say hi.”

If she doesn’t respond so warmly I will usually open with a situational opener. For example, if shes reading a book I’ll make a comment on the book shes reading. Situational openers are easy to come up with on the fly. Simply open your eyes and observe something and then make a comment about it to her.

Now that you know the types of openers its important to know how to open. Many people like to over complicate the opening process but I’m going to keep it simple because frankly, opening is simple.

If the girl you want to approach is sitting down then simply walk over and spit out your opener. Talk for a second and then sit down beside her.

If shes standing then do the same thing minus the sitting.

If shes walking then simply go up and walk beside her and open. keep walking with her for a minute or two and then tell her to stop.

Don’t approach using weird angles and don’t use some retarded false time constraint. Be a man and open like one.

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Section 4 – Form a Connection
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Once you stop and open a woman its time to start developing an emotional connection with her. The quickest and best way to share a deep emotional connection with a woman is to open yourself up and really share yourself and who you are. She will follow your lead.

What does opening yourself up actually look like? When most guys approach a woman and start conversing they only talk about surface level, mundane things. Instead of talking about where you live and what you do for a living its better to talk about your passions, dreams, and other things that involve emotions and feelings. Once you do this you can encourage her to open herself up and share an emotional connection with you.

Once she opens up you can encourage her to then dig even deeper and share even more emotions with you. For example: you ask her about her biggest passion and she explains that she does ballet. Instead of leaving it there you should probe a bit further and find out what inspired her to be a ballet dancer. She might then tell you that she once went to the movies with her mother when she was a child and once of the characters was a ballet dancer. This then opens the door for you both to talk about your childhood. It can keep going deeper and deeper. I promise you that when you get good at this you will be the only one who has ever randomly stopped her and made such an emotional impact.

Its important to note that you should stay away from negative emotions. If a topic you got on seems to have some sort of negative emotions involved with her then change the subject.

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Section 5 – Have a Sexual Vibe
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Having a strong and powerful sexual vibe will do more to gain you instant attraction that anything else you can possibly do. Not only will it help create massive amounts of sexual tension but it will also help weed out time wasters. If you start talking to a woman and she seems repulsed by your sexuality you can safely assume that shes either not interested or that shes not sexually available and then you are free to move on and find a more receptive woman.

Exuding a strong sexual vibe also helps eliminate female cock blocks. A little secret most community guys don’t seem to know is that if a chick’s friends would sleep with you then they usually wont try to cock block you and in many cases they will actually support the two of you hooking up. In addition, having a sexual vibe will actually make you more sexy. You don’t need to be good looking to have a powerful sexual vibe that turns women on, but having a sexual vibe will make you better looking. I’ll go into more detail later on.

Finally, having a powerful sexual vibe is key to getting hotter women. With the super hot women its not enough to just be confident. Any super hottie knows a ton of confident guys but being a confident guy who also makes her wet between her legs will set you apart from the rest.

Here is where we really get to the nuts and bolts of having a powerful sexual vibe. So here we go, having a sexual vibe 101:

1) Being a man with a sexual vibe means being a man who knows how to sexually escalate and how to amp of the sexual tension. I have already written a complete guide on sexual escalation and you can read it here.

For daygame I like to hold sexual eye contact and do some light verbal flirting. A little “sexual overload” here and a suggestive remake there. Don’t go overboard during the day as less is often times more.

2) Dress Edgy. Learn how to dress (wearing clothes that fit, matches up with your skin tone, and makes you look more fit) and then add a sexual touch to it. This can be as easy as unbuttoning your shirt one more button than most guys do, wearing your clothes a bit tighter than most, showing off the good parts of your body, ect.

3) Get a sexy haircut. Most guys have a regular bland, “nice guy” hair cut that really says nothing about themselves other than their clueless. Along with a stylish look, its important that you match it with a stylish and sexy haircut. Doing so is a bit more complicated than googling “sexy haircuts for men.” You first have to figure out your face shape, if the cut you want will work with the thickness of your hair, and it has to be congruent to your overall look.

The best way to get this handled is to find a high end salon and have the gayest hair stylist there do your hair. Tell him your wanting a sexy hair cut and answer all his questions. Then, sit back, relax, and let him do his thing. Encourage him to flex his creative muscles but to keep in mind you want something sexy and edgy. Once he gives you a good cut you can then go to cheaper hair places and have them replicate it the next time.

4) Grow sexual facial hair. Most men under 35 should have some sort of facial hair. Not only does it make a guy look older and more intelligent but it also makes them look more sexy. There are many facial hair styles such as the mustache and the goatee, the full beard, the half beard, stubble, and many more. For most guys I fully suggest stubble and most women find it extremely attractive. Go to google and look up men’s facial hair to get a better idea of what I mean.

5) Slow down! Strong, dominant, attractive, and sexual men all move slow. Moving slow (within reason) communicates confidence and sexuality. Walk a bit slower, get up a bit slower, just move slower in general. Move with a purpose and not like your always in a hurry. Be slower and give women time to check you out.

6) Add pauses to build intrigue. When talking to a woman slow down with your speech, use a more sexual tone, and add pauses to it. This not only makes whatever your saying more interesting but it also builds intrigue and keeps her on the edge of her seat.

7) Get into a sexual state. While talking to a woman make sure that your thinking sexual thoughts. Imagine fucking her in your favorite position. Imagine the sounds shes making, picture her cumming over and over again. Doing this will get you into a sexual state and that will effect your actions and make everything you do more sexual. Trust me, she will feel it as well as woman are extremely perceptive.

You want to maintain a sexual vibe from the second you open to the moment you walk away.

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Section 6 – Qualify Her
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Once you have opened an attractive chick, talked with her and formed a connection, and added a sexual spark to the interaction, its time to “qualify” her. All this means is telling her some non-physical reason why you find her cool.

For example, perhaps you learned shes a ballet dancer. Tell her you think its cool she has such a passion and dedication to something.

Thats it. Simple! Now onto the close.

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Section 7 – The Close
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After you have qualified her on a non-physical trait its time to get the number and get out of there. The best way to do this is to bring up the idea of a future meet and grab her number that way. For example:

“Well hey Cindy, I gotta bounce here in a minute but there is this great cafe a few blocks away. Lets get together later this week and get a drink together. What days you free?”

If shes interested in you she will tell you whats days shes free and then you can be like “ok, cool. Give me your number and I’ll send you a text.”

If she doesn’t like you she will make excuses and say shes busy. If she likes you but is busy she will usually tell you shes busy and offer an alternative time.

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Section 8 – Conclusion
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In a nutshell that is the bare basics of my daygame method. Take care of your looks, go out and use it and by the end of the week you will have plenty of dates lined up.

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Many of you have emailed me asking me why my book The Night Game Blueprint is no longer available for download. Over the last month I have been adding to it and making it a much more complete book. Not only are the typos fixed but I have better explained my concepts and added some new ones.

The book will be back online soon and as always…. it will be free!

Also, I have just brought on a new writer and experienced seducer to the Real Natural Seduction team. You can expect an introduction post from him very soon.

Peace.

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If you have been in the seduction community for more than a few months you have undoubtedly came across an article that tells you the sings that a woman is attracted to you. These signs probably have included things like playing with her hair and laughing at your jokes. I’m here to tell you right now that 99.9% of all those articles suck.

Why? Two big problems here:

1) Most signs the community teach are actually bullshit. Women naturally play with their hair, they smile to be polite, and they laugh at your jokes because your amusing. None of those things means that a woman has any sexual interest in you.

2) A chick can like you but not be sexually available. For instance, lets say you meet a chick outside a coffee shop and strike up a conversation. Shes playing with her hair, she smiles, she even laughs at your jokes…. surely she must want to lay down and spread her legs for you, right? Nope. She could very well like you but that doesn’t mean she wants to or plans on sleeping with you. Perhaps she has a boyfriend that she deeply loves and is in a happy relationship with. Maybe her dog or a family member died the day before and shes simply not emotionally open to sleeping with a guy right now.

The big problem with the whole “X number of signs shes interested in you” type articles is that the sings are bullshit and that often it doesn’t matter if she likes you because if you want to experience the softness of her inner thighs then she needs to be sexually interested in you.

With those problems in mind the rest of this article will outline the sings that a woman is sexually interested in you. Lets get on with it…

1) She makes it easy for you to “game” her. If a woman has sexual interest in you and wants to sleep with you but you aren’t progressing things forward, she will often put herself in a position that makes it easy for you.

She might scoot closer to you on the couch. She could girl-code her girlfriends telling them to leave you alone. She may bend over and let you catch a glimpse of her thong. This is anything a chick does that makes it easy for you to escalate on her or also anything she does to try and get you to escalate things.

2) Movement. If you are a long time reader of this blog you may have herd me talk about my 20 minute rule. Basically, if i’m in a club talking to a chick, if after 20 minutes passes I don’t feel like there is a very good chance I’ll be taking her home tonight then I move on and talk to some other woman. If at that 20 minute mark I’m not sure then I attempt to move her. This is as simple as “hey, come outside with me to get fresh air” or even “hey, lets go to the bar.”

If after 20 minutes a chick refuses to move with you, shes not very likely to want to go home with you. The other thing could be that your escalating to slow and not moving things forward at a proper pace. However, failing that, if she wont move with you then she likely doesn’t have much sexual interest in you.

3) Sex talk. This one is really easy. If after 20 minutes she won’t engage in any conversation relating to the subject of sex, she has no sexual interest in you. However, if your talking about sex (and not being crude), and shes into it then there is a very good chance she has some sexual interest in you. Escalate and move things forward pronto.

4) Escalation. This is by far the most important sign out of all four of them. A big problem most guys have is that they talk to a woman and think she likes him but at the end of the night she gives him a pat on the back and a “nice to meet you.” This confuses our would-be Casanova because she laughed, played with her hair, and seemed to enjoy herself. Hell, she probably did. Her being amused by him does not equal her wanting to sleep with him, however.

Sexual Escalation is awesome because not only does it weed out those kinds of girls but it shows us, for sure, if a chick is sexually interested in you. No woman is going to let you amp of the sexuality and move things forward unless she wants it to happen. Getting good at sexual escalation will help you save a ton of time weeding out women who aren’t really interested in you and will help you lay the ones who are. To learn even more about sexual escalation you can click here.

Okay guys, just to recap: It doesn’t matter if a chick is playing with her hair, laughing at your jokes, or smiling at you. If you want to get laid then what matters is that shes putting herself into a position to be seduced, she give you solid investment (movement), and she allows you to continually escalate on her. Don’t waste time on women who are only talking to you to be polite and/or to be amused.

See you next time,

Jeff “Warped Mindless” Stanton

Developing a Sexual Vibe

Posted: November 4, 2012 in Uncategorized

I talk a lot about having a “sexual vibe” but until now I have never gone into much detail about what a sexual vibe is or why its important. Having a sexual vibe means that when a woman talks to you, or even looks at you, she feels your sexuality.

What does a sexual vibe do for me?

Having a strong and powerful sexual vibe will do more to gain you instant attraction that anything else you can possibly do. Not only will it help create massive amounts of sexual tension but it will also help weed out time wasters. If you start talking to a woman and she seems repulsed by your sexuality you can safely assume that shes either not interested or that shes not sexually available and then you are free to move on and find a more receptive woman.

Exuding a strong sexual vibe also helps eliminate female cock blocks. A little secret most community guys don’t seem to know is that if a chick’s friends would sleep with you then they usually wont try to cock block you and in many cases they will actually support the two of you hooking up.  In addition, having a sexual vibe will actually make you more sexy. You don’t need to be good looking to have a powerful sexual vibe that turns women on, but having a sexual vibe will make you better looking. I’ll go into more detail later on.

Finally, having a powerful sexual vibe is key to getting hotter women. With the super hot women its not enough to just be confident. Any super hottie knows a ton of confident guys but being a confident guy who also makes her wet between her legs will set you apart from the rest.

Inner game of Sexual Vibe

In order to have a sexual vibe you have to understand something that most men don’t, namely that women are super sexual! Its woman’s dirty little secret and its important that you know it and understand it.
There is a female author, Nancy Friday, who wrote a book, My Secret Garden, thats all about female fantasies. Guys who have read that book will agree with the following statement:

HOLY SHIT!
If you haven’t read that book then you need to do so now. You will be exposed to a whole new world and will look at women differently. Be careful, however, that your not like most guys who read that book and that you don’t judge her. Yes, women do have some strange fantasies. No, its not okay to judge them for it. Women constantly being judged is the reason most of them hide their sexuality and is also why most guys think men are more sexual and horny than woman are.

Outter game of Sexual Vibe

Here is where we really get to the nuts and bolts of having a powerful sexual vibe. So here we go, having a sexual vibe 101:

1) Being a man with a sexual vibe means being a man who knows how to sexually escalate and how to amp of the sexual tension. I have already written a complete guide on sexual escalation and you can read it here.

Basically, keep powerful eye contact, be close to her, and don’t be afraid to touch her in a sexualized way. Again, read my sexual escalation guide for more information.

2) Dress Edgy. Learn how to dress (wearing clothes that fit, matches up with your skin tone, and makes you look more fit) and then add a sexual touch to it. This can be as easy as unbuttoning your shirt one more button than most guys do, wearing your clothes a bit tighter than most, showing off the good parts of your body, ect.

Teaching you how to dress is a massive topic that cant really be covered in a single blog post. To get your style handed I suggest the book Seduce with Style.

3) Get a sexy haircut. Most guys have a regular bland, “nice guy” hair cut that really says nothing about themselves other than their clueless. Along with a stylish look, its important that you match it with a stylish and sexy haircut. Doing so is a bit more complicated than googling “sexy haircuts for men.” You first have to figure out your face shape, if the cut you want will work with the thickness of your hair, and it has to be congruent to your overall look.

The best way to get this handled is to find a high end salon and have the gayest hair stylist there do your hair. Tell him your wanting a sexy hair cut and answer all his questions. Then, sit back, relax, and let him do his thing. Encourage him to flex his creative muscles but to keep in mind you want something sexy and edgy. Once he gives you a good cut you can then go to cheaper hair places and have them replicate it the next time.

4) Grow sexual facial hair. Most men under 35 should have some sort of facial hair. Not only does it make a guy look older and more intelligent but it also makes them look more sexy. There are many facial hair styles such as the mustache and the goatee, the full beard, the half beard, stubble, and many more. For most guys I fully suggest stubble and most women find it extremely attractive. Go to google and look up men’s facial hair to get a better idea of what I mean.

5) Slow down! Strong, dominant, attractive, and sexual men all move slow. Moving slow (within reason) communicates confidence and sexuality. Walk a bit slower, get up a bit slower, just move slower in general. Move with a purpose and not like your always in a hurry. Be slower and give women time to check you out.

6) Add pauses to build intrigue. When talking to a woman slow down with your speech, use a more sexual tone, and add pauses to it. This not only makes whatever your saying more interesting but it also builds intrigue and keeps her on the edge of her seat.

7) Get into a sexual state. While talking to a woman make sure that your thinking sexual thoughts. Imagine fucking her in your favorite position. Imagine the sounds shes making, picture her cumming over and over again. Doing this will get you into a sexual state and that will effect your actions and make everything you do more sexual. Trust me, she will feel it as well as woman are extremely perceptive. You can read more about being in a sexual state in my article about sexual escalation.

Conclusion

Develop a sexy vibe and you will find women throwing themselves at you. Its rare for a woman to meet a guy that just oozes sexuality and when you become that guy you will find yourself sleeping with more women than you ever imagined. To learn more about creating a sexual vibe and how to amp up sexual tension, check out my buddies free presentation on the subject by clicking here.

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All too often I hear guys talking about “creating attraction.”

They talk about DHV stories, negs, cocky-funny, cold reads, humor, and other things the believe will cause a women to become attracted to you. They go out, do all these things, then come back and post on forums wondering why women just aren’t attracted to them. If you’re one of those guys then I’m here to inspire a shift in thinking.

Instead of putting your focus on “creating attraction” you should instead put the focus on arousing the women. The absolute best way to arouse a woman is to have a sexual vibe. This comes from your look (be edgy), body language, and sexual escalation (important).

Lets take a closer look at how the two are different.

Meet Joe. Joe is heading out to his favorite bar tonight to hit on some women. Once Joe gets to the bar he approaches women and immediately starts trying to “build attraction.” He tells her a DHV story about some stripper ex-GFs that never existed. He makes a few cold reads, hes very cocky-funny. He gets a lot of positive reactions from the chick but at the end of the night when he goes to pull her home she says no and goes to her friends. He was entertaining but he wasn’t attractive. GoodLookingLoser calls this “Mr Funny Man Game” and I tend to agree with that assessment.

Meet Bob. Like Joe, Bob is also heading out to the bar. Bob is dressed edgy and looking good. Although hes not a classically good looking guy, hes dressed well and in a manner that exudes a sexual vibe. Bob gets to the bar and spots a sexy blond which he approaches. Bob comes in with sexual eye contact and talks slow. He uses pauses and builds tension with his speech. Bob is also very close to her, less than an arms length away. He shoots the shit with her, just self amusing and not talking about anything very important. Bob isn’t looking for reactions. Instead hes amping up the sexual tension and arousing her. He isn’t worried about proving hes some abstract “high value guy.” He doesn’t care about that and knows she doesn’t either. His concern is to have a good time and to make her horny by arousing her via sexual tension. He touches her, flirts with her, and moves her around the bar a lot. When the night comes to an end her looks at her, “lets get outta here” and off they go.

While both examples are a bit silly they are accurate. If you have been going out and focusing on “building attraction” without success then shift your focus away from that and to building tension and arousing women.

If you’re tired of making women laugh and telling stories and want to arouse women and actually get laid then you owe it to yourself to learn the secrets of arousal. To do that click here.